Sucking cock the way he likes it
I like when hard husband tells me or shows me what to do in bed.
First of all, I like to be dominated. For some reason, that just excites me sexually - to know that I'm being used for his pleasure, at his whim.
Secondly, I like when he tells me what he likes. I can guess at it, read his body signals, listen for verbal cues like gasps and moans, but I love it when he comes right out and verbalizes or physically shows me.
This second one is key. I'm a very verbal person. When I'm not in bed I talk and talk and talk and talk. When I'm in bed I'm just plain loud. That's where this blog comes in handy. I can burn off some of that excess energy by communicating with you guys.
Hard husband, on the other hand, is less verbal - especially in bed. For example, last night there came a point when I knew there was something he wanted me to do but I wasn't sure what it was.
"What do you want me to do now?" I asked.
He pointed at his cock.
So, I got myself busy sucking cock. He got his point across, but something about it just struck me funny. Not one single word - just a simple point of the finger.
A few days ago, husband did something he'd never really done before. He's grasped my head while I'm sucking his cock, he's fucked my mouth, but he's never really completely took control of my motions - at least not like this.
"Let me do it," he said.
So, I relaxed my head and let him completely take over. He started very slowly, just on the tip of his cock. Then he slowly, slowly built up speed and depth.
It was definitely a learning experience. I guess, if I'd been asked to predict beforehand, what he would do, I would have said one thing - hard, deep and fast.
Don't get me wrong, I use a variety of strokes and speeds when I'm sucking his cock. I lick and even nibble a bit. Sometimes I concentrate more on his tip, sometimes I try to see how deep I can pull him inside my mouth. I swirl, I use suction, I hold still, I go fast. But I've never really done anything quite like he did.
Later on, I told him that I really liked when he took control like that. I felt like I learned something about what he likes - even after more than four years of getting to know his cock.
"I know you like it when I tell you what to do," he said.
Oh, boy do I.


10 comments:
Ah, May is Fellatio Month at d.f.p., too!
I generally prefer to be an active fellator, but there have been times where I've enjoyed the more passive role of pretending my mouth is a pussy and enjoying the sensations as my man fucks it.
And sometimes we just take turns! That's fun, too!
I am right there with you! I love being a submissive slut. I love it when he takes control and uses me for his pleasure.
You, DFP and my wonderful wife, talk, talk, talk, in bed. It's like she's been storing up all of her words for bed. Sometimes I just have to tell her to shut up!
I love to get forceful with The Teacher. And she gets off on it too.
BTW...
Cockwhores all of you, such a great thing ;-)
Like you say it's difficult to predict how things will turn out, how you will react. That applies to one event, or throughtout the course of the relationship. If you're with the right person the possibilities are endless.
every man I have been with told me the same thing: I talk a lot in bed! but sometimes I like to just shut up and do whatever he wants me to.
I like what you said about being very verbal and how blogging is a nice release for that. I feel the same way. Blogging allows me to release what I am sometimes not able to otherwise. Especially my submissive tendencies, which I am starting to discover more and more... Yes, yes, gotta love a man with control over me - or you, as the case may be.
cherrie: I noticed that lately, I talk about sucking cock more than I talk about intercourse! But I think that's 12-months a year, LOL.
biker: that's hilarious. I LOVE talking in bed, during sex and just pillow talk before we fall asleep. It's my favorite time of the day, laying in bed talking!
europosh: you and me both then, LOL. sometimes there are moments to be quiet, but I love talking too!
fex: me too. As I read others blogs and write my own, I am discovering my own likes and dislikes. And, oh, yes, we gotta love those controlin' men!!
I must say there is nothing like a man taking control...the feel of his hands in my hair and my mouth around him...Oh Lord now I am all hot and bothered :)
Gustavia
gustavia: I agree, it makes me all hot and bothered too!
Him just pointing, that was hysterical. He's definitely not in sales -- you gotta ask for the order!
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