Saturday, November 17, 2007

Coming up for air

Well, it's obvious from my lack of posts that my new job has kept me crazy busy. I think the worst is over now. More employees have been hired and trained in, so that's starting to take some pressure off me.

What has suffered, unfortunately, is my blog and even working on my book. It's really frustrating because that's what I would rather be spending my time and energy on, but I just haven't had any time or energy to spare.

Oh, to win the lottery.

Last night we stayed at a hotel. So you know what that means, crazy, happy hotel sex. If there were any other guests staying in the vicinity of our room or walking the hallway at the right time, they were sure to get an earful.

Chad's theory about sex-related noise at a hotel is that it's expected. If someone were to hear us they would simply think, 'Ah, somebody's getting it good.' Which is, I am sure, how he would react if our neighbors started getting it on very vocally.

But I worry of the people with children or the old, crabby people that are just trying to get some sleep. I assume their reaction to loud sex would be less forgiving. I hasn't happened yet, but I'm waiting for someone to bang on the wall angrily or call the front desk and complain.

Last night, as usual, I was lost in my own little world. I wasn't thinking about old people in polyester or children just trying to sleep in their innocence. That's the best way to have sex, of course. If you are thinking about what you need to do tomorrow at work or making a grocery list for Thanksgiving in your head, somebody isn't doing something right, whether it is you, your partner or a combination.

Last night I was enjoying some amazing oral sex from Chad. He had his face buried in my pussy and was doing everything just right. Sound was just pouring from me like steam from a tea kettle.

Then, for just a second, I became aware of my surroundings. I think I heard some muffled noises coming from a nearby room, which reminded me I was not at home in my own bed. I considered, briefly, whether I should try to be quieter, but it just didn't happen. I was way to far gone for logical thinking.

So, as I said, some people very well could have heard us. I hope it inspired them, rather than upset or angered them. But in the end it really doesn't matter. That moment of orgasm is - and should be - a very selfish moment. All my husband and I were thinking of right then was our mutual pleasure.

So what do you the rest of you think? Is it, as Chad says, expected that a hotel or motel could ring with the sounds of rowdy sex? Do you worry about your volume when you are getting your hotel sex fix? Or do you really cut loose? I'm also curious to hear if there is anyone out there that has been reported on for having loud sex in a hotel.

I've never heard another couple having sex through the walls of a hotel room. If it were just me and my husband, I doubt very much that it would bother us.

Have any of you had that experience? What was your reaction to the noises of bliss coming from the other room?

23 comments:

Anonymous said...

"I hasn't happened yet, but I'm waiting for someone to bang on the wall angrily or call the front desk and complain."

Missed the "t" out from "It".
Hope this helps

Rae said...

I have to admit, I've never heard sex through the walls (or doors) of a hotel, but I think it would be at least partially expected...it wouldn't surprise me. But if I did, I would probably giggle a little...or let my auralphiliac out and get off to it :-) (is that weird?)

Barbara_Talbot said...

Hotel sex for us is usually done silently under the cover of clean high-thread-count sheets as children (lots) sleep in the adjoining room or ~guilty~ on the floor.

Sometimes the only privacy we can get is the cool tile of the bathroom floor.

Her perception is that I am louder when they are in the adjoining room. I think she is just hyper aware at those times as you seemed to have been when you suddenly remembered you were not at home.

On the few occasions we have managed to slip off by ourselves..(We have this charmingly seedy neon-figure be-decked motel within a few miles that we like to go to) ...we care not at all for others sensibilities.

We have never had the auditory thrill of hearing others going at it. Maybe the walls have a Bose sound cancellation filter built in, only letting through the annoying sounds of terse arguments, nose blowing and toilets flushing and screening out the sounds of raucous lovemaking tat I am quite sure is occurring in at least every third room in any given hotel.

C-Funk said...

i expect it. i do it. i once was on a cruise with a boyfriend. we got a little too turned on just as the de-boarding process started. our room was located on the route out. you know how cruises can get - crowds and hoards of people milling about to exit. there was just such a gathering right outside our room door. so guess who got a show while they waited? :)

Tuplad said...

Hey hey, welcome back :) Hotel sex sound exciting, and this is a nice post for me to follow... I promised Zarinda(who is my girlfriend) to have some hotel sex once. It never happened :(

GrizzBabe said...

That reminds me of the time I went to an out-of-town wedding and my hotel room was next door to a couple that I graduated from college with. They were newly married. He was in the wedding party and she was not. For the duration of the reception, while he was seated with the groomsmen and she was seated with the rest of the guests, they made sexy eye contact with each other. Finally, when they had gotten back to their room, they were able to do to each other what their eyes had been saying they were going to do to each other all night. And I got to listen. It was kinda hot.

Fusion said...

Actually happened the first night I was in the Oz capital of Canberra, I couple next door was having sex in the shower. Made me smile. The times I've had sex in a hotel, I never gave it a second thought either...
Welcome back Holly, I was wondering the other day about you!

Woldinghamuk said...

I was sleeping in a hotel for the first time after like 3 years ... and actually enjoyed having nothing to do, being lazy and watching the telly.. then I heard these strange noises as if someone paid for the adult channels in the room nextdoor and was watching the stuff... well they have not paid, they were doing it right there and then :-)

It was not very pleasant to listen to.. as I wanted to have my rest and those guys have, in the end, woken me up like 3 times during the night.

Otherwise, I guess I just would not care, but at that time it sort of p..... me off :-) as I had to attend a seminar starting at 9 am.

Nadine said...

I don't completely check myself but I am conscience of the proximity of other people...I have in fact asked to have a room away from other people. And got it...and then I made all the noise I wanted!

Anonymous said...

I suppos eit depends on what kind of hotel I am at. If I'm at one of those waterpark types that caters to kids and families, I'll behave. If it's not, well then....

My husband and I lived next door to a young newly married couple when we were first together. There were plenty of times they got us started and vice versa. I loved it. But years later when a child came along to our family and we were in a newer apartment that was below a young man who had women over ALL THE TIME I decided I did NOT want to have to explain to our toddler what was going on. ("Why is that woman crying mom?") So we bit the bullet and bought a house.

I still like to hear couples enjoying each other's company.

hasarder said...

Yay, you're back ! I was getting worried.

I used to live in a block of flats where the upstairs neighbours had very loud sex. It never bothered me, I'd just smile quietly to myself.
Then I got a new housemate who hated it so much he would throw shoes at the ceiling when they started.

Probably because he wasn't getting any.

Tommy said...

That's why we go to hotels lol. I feel worst for housekeeping the next day than the people next door.
When I was in the Army, MG came to visit me for a weekend and we had lotsa wild monkey sex. I had to take the headboard off because the gay couple next to us complained. I think they were jealous.

Drew said...

Well, sex isn't done right if its not loud. How can hotels complain if they sell people double beds..

Cool blog :)

Drew
thepickupsite.com

Lou said...

I have heard hotel sex coming from another room, and joined in with a loud masturbation session of my own. Not sure if they heard or not, but I certainly appreciated their inspiration!

Monogamous Couple said...

The next time we have hot kinky sex in a motel room (assuming we escape from the kids) we shall let The Fellatio Artist fill her lungs with lust and expel loudly to the enthusiastic pistoning provided by her husband, The Geek.

Incidentally, we have restarted the wifes defunct sexblog after being inspired by the fun way the two of you post here. The husband has joined in and the writing seems to be driving the kink level to dizzying heights.

Possibly from oxygen deprivation we have lost all sense of propriety and have even posted photographic illustrations where we were able to justify the as relevant.

Keep up the work inspiring the masses of kinky, monogamous couples.

Shay said...

I've heard roommates before, but it didn't mind too much - it just made me giggle.
Actually, I've started to wonder what passersby think when they walk by my apartment when I'm having sex with the windows open.
I hope they just giggle too.

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Wilson said...

Coming from the hotel industry, I have seen and heard all kinds of things going on in hotel rooms. I my opion if sex screams is the biggest problem with your stay, you should consider yourseld lucky. You wouldn't believe the things I've seen and heard even if I told you. So next time you stay in a hotel and you hear sex going on in the next room....Don't hate...if you're with someone....try having a contest on who can be louder. If you are alone...take advanage of the free sex radio and go to town....lol.

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Sex Toys said...

Well, being a person who travels a lot but hates hotels and loves hostels, hearing a bit of noise through a hotel wall wouldn't bother me a bit. Staying in hostels all the time you get used to others having sex near you, often in the bed above/below you, and get used to having sex with other people around.

Sex Toys said...

Doesnt bother me at all either

Panochita and Tonito said...

My lover and I go to motels very often, it's just a place we can go because I get up up really early to go to work which is an hour and half away from home, and he works in the same area as i do. So, occassionally we meet up at motels when we know that he will be getting home while I'm well asleep. There was this one time that we were just very horny and we just closed the curtains and we were so into ourselves that we just made sure that the curtains were closed and that the door was locked and we were both climaxing in our passionate lovemaking. I was on top of him and was moaning and gasping ever so loudly. It was the best sex and loudest sex we had ever had at that time...and then my love looked over at the windows and stayed quiet. We heard voices, but we heard them as if it were in the room... we discovered that we were so into ourselves that we forgot to close the windows... they WIDE OPEN so every little giglle and shriek and burst of laughter was heard.. We just laughed out loud.. it was somewhat embarrassing to have found this out in an unexpected way, but we held off before leaving just to make sure no one was waiting around to see who was making the loud racket in the whole motel!! It's one of my best memories and we laughed about it now and then, and sometimes even dare to do it again...have sex with the windows open on purpose... =)

Panochita and Tonito said...

My lover and I go to motels very often, it's just a place we can go because I get up up really early to go to work which is an hour and half away from home, and he works in the same area as i do. So, occassionally we meet up at motels when we know that he will be getting home while I'm well asleep. There was this one time that we were just very horny and we just closed the curtains and we were so into ourselves that we just made sure that the curtains were closed and that the door was locked and we were both climaxing in our passionate lovemaking. I was on top of him and was moaning and gasping ever so loudly. It was the best sex and loudest sex we had ever had at that time...and then my love looked over at the windows and stayed quiet. We heard voices, but we heard them as if it were in the room... we discovered that we were so into ourselves that we forgot to close the windows... they WIDE OPEN so every little giglle and shriek and burst of laughter was heard.. We just laughed out loud.. it was somewhat embarrassing to have found this out in an unexpected way, but we held off before leaving just to make sure no one was waiting around to see who was making the loud racket in the whole motel!! It's one of my best memories and we laughed about it now and then, and sometimes even dare to do it again...have sex with the windows open on purpose... =)