'Inadequate friction'
After writing my last post I received a comment from Willie. Here is what he said:
On the idea that "you can never be too wet", what do you do when your girlfriend really is too wet, resulting in inadequate friction? (and no, it's not because I'm small - I believe I'm above average).Dear Willie,
Too wet, eh? I'm afraid I have never experienced that. I don't gush but I have been dripping wet, leaving a butt-sized wet spot. However, I have not had this problem so I'm not sure I understand what you mean. That doesn't mean your issue isn't valid - just that I haven't encountered it before.
Since you mention your size I am assuming you mean too wet during penetration. Am I right? In that case I would guess that it's not about size or wetness, but angle or direct vs indirect stimulation. First, does she experience plenty of pleasure and/or orgasms prior to or even after fucking? Secondly, have you tried different positions to hit her spot better?
It's not all about the penis boys. If she is having trouble getting off when you fuck her, try not to take it badly. Just focus on giving her pleasure any way you can and she will appreciate it - I guarantee it.
Willey, I don't mean to be condescending or offensive at all. There may be something that I am just not getting here.
If anyone else out there can help us out, please do so. Is there such a thing as too wet? Do you have some suggestions for Willie? If so, please chime in.
28 comments:
Well, I would certainly enjoy the wetness!! Then I would just slide a littel lower and use all that wetness to side into her ass and fill her up!!
Yes, you are missing it. I'm referring to my ability to cum, not hers. She does just fine!
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Willie - my lover has more than a few times said that I get "too wet" and when that happens he asks me squeeze on his cock so he can feel friction...it works for him! Though we do both agree that the extreme wetness helps him to last a long long time.
There's actually a product someone developed for this... but I think they've gone out of business.
Here's someone on Yahoo answers asking about it.
This is something that rarely happens to us, but it can. I think the problem that Willy is referring to is that the penis needs a certain abount of friction to get a purchase, this causes the skin to be held in place as the innards of the cock move back and forth inside the skin of the penis. It is this differential in placement, the rubbing inside itself that is pleasurable, not just the rubbing on the skin itself. When this happens to me, I just keep at it conting on the fact that enough reciprications will surrly eventually use up any aof her excess lubrication..That works in our case but I could see if she produced it faster than I could wear it out it could end up feeling a little frustrating. Laughed a little about using that extra lube inserting a little lower (well or higher depending on the positon) that might work! ~wink~
you could try taking a break to use a toy or her fingers. that sometimes uses up some lubrication (at least transfers it to a third party) so when you continue having sex, she won't be quite as wet.
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I would say that I am one of those that gets too wet. My husband has a small penis. It gets so bad that I can't feel anything and he pops out. I pull off him and wipe myself off. It gets annoying... may be part of the reson that we don't have sex much. We have been married for 9 years but it is really starting to bother me. I just found this blog so hopefully I will find something that helps me.
Once or twice a year, S gets overly wet also. In the doggy position, she just reaches back and fondles J's balls. Usually, that is enough to make him shoot his load within seconds. Woof!
Too wet? Oh to have YOUR problems!!
Have you tried varying the angle of entry? If you change the angle so that there is more friction between the underside of the penis and her vaginal wall, the amount of lubrication should be so much of a factor.
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Too wet... well that's all relative... too wet for toys? never too wet for toys. Too wet for fingers? nope... never enough wetness for fingers.
Oh yeah, too wet to provide enough friction for willie... yes that can happen. The sensations just aren't right or it's too slippery.
Different positions help... rear entry and some of the positions where the female has her legs together help... getting down there and lapping up some of the excess wetness helps too ;)
Taking a break... blow job... hand job... foot job... frontage... all seem to help... anal sex is usually good at that point since she's fairly excited...
Sometimes a pocket rocket or mini-egg on her clit will help... starts her orgasm building and tightens things up... so more friction.
Experiment and play... find out what works...
Another Xmas alone. Sigh.
Inadequate friction? Try changing position!
This happens to me and my partner a fair bit. Try rear entry with her lying on her stomach or on her knees, but in either case with her legs together, your legs outside hers.
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I have had this happen recently. To be honest, it was a huge blow to my ego, not being able to get my husband off. I was far more upset than he was. I talked to another man I trust about it and he acknowledged the issue as well. He also suggested changing positions to increase friction, and trying to dry it up some (which probably would have taken hours on that day ;). If you and your partner are up to it, anal sex is a grand way to use up that extra moisture, too. Tight!
Too much lubrication can be a sign of a pelvic infection. Word to the wise.
After my wife’s 3rd orgasm of the night, she will get that wet. Personally, I love it like that, but I could understand how it would make it difficult to get enough friction to cum. We have a workaround, but don’t generally get around to it right away. I’m 40 and for the most part, I’m only getting the one erection, so I don’t mind making it last. Anyway, what works for us, is to get her knees up, way up, like her ankles are next to your ears up. Granted, she needs to be some what flexible in a bendy sort of way with no discomfort. In this position, the bottom of your cock is full contact with the taut lower side of her pussy. That should do it for you...
I get too wet ALL THE DAMN TIME. Even when my lover has a fairly large penis, this can be a problem. It just gets too slippery for him to get enough friction to achieve orgasm. Sometimes wiping off with a towel now and again helps. Sometimes we retire to the bathtub and the water helps flush things out a bit. Mostly, I just finish him off orally.
A friend recently suggested having him enter from behind with my legs together and his outside mine. It seems it would close the gap somewhat and make for more friction for him. We'll see!
I find that sometimes I do feel a bit too wet...not that it is a bad thing but I do think that we both might enjoy just a bit more friction...Having said that I can't say that any man has ever told me that I was "too wet"
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What you need is in the kitchen, possibly in the fridge, but more likely the cupboard that you keep your breakfast stuff in...
Honey.
100% serious. It's a sexy, sweet, yummy DE-lubricant. It just adds a bit of friction when you need it. And flavour.
Did I mention it's sweet and yummy?
:-)
You know I get pretty wet, but I've never thought I was too wet. Now I'm curious?!
hi
u havn't posted in a while. I understand a busy life, but I hope you post soon. I completely agree with your outlook on sex (fantastic, yet monogamous) and I have really enjoyed your blog. Please do write again soon.
I have to agree with anonymous...we miss you Holly (and Chad)! Come back to us!
Hope the book is going phenomenally well. Let us know how you are!
xoxo
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